CURB YOUR CONTEMPLATIONS

Many of us actually go like, how can someone not like us , how we are . May be because of slight narcissism  or how much work we put in building our lives or how successful we are economically, academically, creatively or  by other way. some of us are very passionate about the things and people we love and we climb steeps and cliffs to make sacrifices for our work and people around us. We try to be the best we can be and we don't take things, life, people, work, anything for granted . We have almost never taken anything granted and if we ever did take something for granted we already could see the repercussions, coming .

 We never  took the companionship of those people for granted who left us at the very first place , and we still sometimes wonder how can someone not acknowledge us as a human being and cheat on us , by anyway or leave us anyway. But then some of us somewhere in the barrages of life find the answer, " They do take things, people, work, time, this life" Everything granted and that's how you lose on life altogether. It's not about you, it's not about me, it's not about us. It really have nothing to do with us, it's about people who don't function like us actually and we don't need to feel bad or mean or anything like, they would feel the hurt or anything but most of us then see that such people don't feel hurt, they live through it, they don't feel the regrets.

But we forget to nuance that out that such people  live their regrets almost daily, they don't have the emotional depth to feel , but life takes them granted when they take it for granted and that's how unfair or fair life  is.

And then they try to cope with these regrets , but they aren't able to, their body, their mind their surroundings, everything in it stores the regrets of their undone or taken for granted past and it haunts them. They have conscious nightmares, their bellies store the pain of their taken for granted life and then they die with this and that's the kind of death, and kind of life we all are terrified to live, but most of us, do, unfortunately, insincerely and ungratefully as we move ahead and time passes by and life looks like, filled with the chapters of uncompleted, unsaid, broken stories and others like us, who face grand turmoils, weep out our pain and laugh at our pleasures and take nothing for granted, face grand failures and grandeur successes and that's how charismatic life is. But the difference is, few of us feel our failure and live our successes, we don't live our regrets because we made most out of lives even when we were held with our last breath, last word or last smile.

So, 

" The onus to appropriate the dysfunctional nature of most human does not lies on the functional ones. " 

Leeza 

Leeza