Being judgemental

 Being judgemental

Within the times of pre-ancestoral ages to the ultra modern world, we humans have evolved much but still there are certain traits/characteristics that look quite unchangeable from the very beginning because of our social patterns. One among them is being judgemental. Being judgemental or judging someone basically means stigmatizing their character or worth on the basis of what they practice, preach, look or the way they appears. We all are often found judging someone for some thing even without knowing it. Such as, love marriage means the people involved in it are characterless, or else, according to their belief system. 

The roots:

The roots of judging are pointed in a nutshell in a house of belief. We all have certain moral, cultural, political or social belief, on the basis of whichever we form the wiring of our brain cells/neurons in such a way that whenever our belief system get broken by some one else, these get activated and start judging them, that is pretty inappropriate. 

How are belief system formed? 

Basically and practically speaking, there are multiple facets to it, but we would discuss main three.

1)our parents /family(the closure world) 

2)our friends and acquaintance s

3) media, books, magazines, etc.

We get influenced by all of these factors to form a stable and constant belief system. 

When are belief system changed, shattered, or slightly changed?

There are three facets to it:-

1)when someone start judging us for what we believe is wrong and we notice it, so usually, our belief system and the constant practice of judging someone would change. 

2)with time, and experience, we all would change, and similarly when we would come in Contact with the outer world. People would choose to be more flexible and change their point of view. 

3)if one have a weak personality, then it would become very easy to convince them and change their already unstable, and changing belief system. 

Leeza